know how to begin, invest in some time management books or talk with the women you know who excel in this practical skill. 2. Grow in emotional stability—Certainly to be a sparkling jewel in anyone’s life, you and I need to be growing in emotional stability. After all, the mistress of the home determines the general emotional atmosphere under her roof; her emotional state sets the standard and the tone. Proverbs speaks numerous times of the shrewish woman who is rottenness to her husband’s bones